Thursday, September 6, 2012

Wanting


I want.  I want.  I want.

 Doesn’t sound like much of a quote, but it is.  I read Carson McCuller’s The Heart is A Lonely Hunter and I loved it.  The particular paragraph where this was found has never left me.  It reads:

 
"She thought a long time and kept hitting her thighs with her fists. Her face felt like it was scattered in pieces and she could not keep it straight. The feeling was a whole lot worse than being hungry for any dinner, yet it was like that. I want-I want-I want was all she could think about--but just what this real want was she did not know."

 
This particular passage does not alter the story itself.  It is proof of McCuller’s beautiful writing, but again, this moment in this book is just that.  And yet, this moment in her book has lasted a lifetime for me.  Not literally, of course, but certainly since I first read the words.

For so long, I have not ever known what I wanted.  I could tell you what I didn’t want: Where would you like to eat?  I don’t know, but not McDonalds, etc.  Somewhere along the way I stopped giving myself permission to dream.

For the first time in a long time, I know something that I want.  Something big.  Something that I will have to really work hard for.  Something that I will have to wait for.  Something that I will have to prove that I really do want by not giving up.  Even if I work really hard and even if I do not give up, there is still a chance that this dream will not happen.  I understand that.  I think it will be worth trying for.

 Today I have a dream.  Want with me.  I want, I want, I want…



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8 comments:

  1. oh beth. i LOVE this post. i love the way you're dreaming big, and i'm rooting you on, friend. in a big way.

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    1. Thank you, Emily! I am rooting for me, too...

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  2. It can be the hardest thing to know what we really want. I love this post. Thank you for sharing and I hope your dream comes to fruition for you. Dropped by via imperfect prose. Behind The Smile.

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    1. Hard indeed! Thank you for stopping by!!

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  3. nice....it is cool to have that kind of direction and hope...i def hope you get that dream no matter how long it takes you to get there....

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  4. beautiful writing, friend!
    cheering for you over
    those dreams standing up inside of you!
    big hope and peace to your wings:)
    -Jennifer

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    1. Thank you, Jennifer! your words are lovely!

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